Life is short, do something that matters. Live your life on your own terms. Don’t try to please others too much, they don’t deserve your time and efforts. Be self sufficient but kind to others. There’s always someone that is a perfect match for you. Sometimes you have to try a few perfect and non perfect matches to find the right one. And if you realise you haven’t found the right person yet, don’t worry they might be just the next person you meet.
Every once in a while I get very emotional about myself, who I am and what i wish to become. Latest episode occurred when watching “For all mankind” I just started to scream/cry and couldn’t stop for some time. At these moments I become a jerk to myself and blame myself for not having accomplished much more and not pursuing something extraordinary. It’s a valid point and I like this feeling in a sense it proves to me that I’m not dead inside and all hope is not lost.
The greatest sin in IT industry is to lose your customer’s data. Of course redundancies will cost you. You can always cut corners to keep the costs low and increase your profit margins but when the disaster strikes you will lose all your credebility and chances are you’ll have to spend a lot more to recover from the situation. Don’t cut corners on customer data unless you know how to handle the disasters.
It’s 1st March, two months gone from 2021 and I’m still here with no significant progress from the beginning of the year.
I’m totally disappointing myself, and I’m embarrassed sed by me. I don’t remember who said this but the saying goes “you’re the worst boss that you worked for”. Basically we blame ourselves a lot worse than the worse bosses, and I think it’s totally true, at least for me with all the bosses I worked with.